Had a two-day communication training in Shanghai. Learned quite a lot! I didn't realize that how you say and your appearnce actually count more than what you say.

 

Looking back, some of the frustration and conflicts come from poor communication. It's either I could have conveyed my ideas in a better way, or I could have been more calm and focused on work when bothered by others' unintentionally yet upsetting words.

 

I just need to bear this in mind: 1) Always remind myself to pay attention to how I communicate. Choleric-type personality tends to be bossy. I found it to be true, unfortunately.....   2) Don't be bothered by others imperfect way of communication. Focus on getting things done.

 

 

 

 

 

Cannot help feeling bad. I did something wrong. And, terribly wrong! What's worse is that, for no reason, I spent all day watching movie instead of fixing the problem.

 

Maybe it's because I'm too lazy. Maybe it's because I don't have the courage to face my mistake.

 

Anyway, need to do it now!!!